Sexy questions to ask your lover tonight & relationship tips

I am so lucky. I have a partner who enjoys talking about our relationship. It's basically a girl's dream! All of those thoughts constantly swirling in my head while I think of us, can be conveyed to him conversationally and he'll actually enjoy it, engage with me, and share his own thoughts. Swoon.

Taking turns asking and answering questions is an intimate, easy way to vulnerably open up to your partner. In return, you learn about them too. We've used this card game, "We're Not Really Strangers," my former therapist recommended (I miss you, Bev!), which has different levels of conversations meant to deepen your understanding of someone.

So I thought it would be fun to come up with some sexy questions you could ask your lover (or lovers, we're cool with whatever you're into) to get to know them a little better, uncover spicy secrets, and most importantly, have fun!

What's the most unexpected place you've felt an attraction to someone?
If we could escape anywhere right now, where would you want us to go?
What's a secret fantasy you've always wanted to explore?
What's your favorite way to be touched?
If you could relive one sensual moment from your past, what would it be?
What's something you'd love to try in the bedroom but haven't yet?
What outfit do you feel sexiest in?
What's your favorite part of foreplay?
How do you like to be kissed?
What's the sexiest thing someone has ever said to you?
Do you prefer slow and sensual or fast and intense?
What turns you on instantly?
What’s your favorite type of lingerie or underwear on me?
What’s something about me that drives you wild?
Would you rather dominate or be dominated?
If sexuality is a spectrum, where would you place yourself?
What's your freakiness rating, on a scale of 1 to 10?
How would you like to have me tonight? ;)

There you go, some spicy questions to really heat up the conversation, and activity level! What questions would you add to the list? What are your best relationship tips?