Our experience at Nashville's sexy Red Room private club

Rule number one of our relationship: a robust sex life. This was a sentence I'd uttered many moons ago, when we first started dating. Billy, of course, was thrilled with this relationship rule, and who wouldn't be? Exploring pleasure in all of its forms and really taking a bite out of life was a philosophy and mindset that I'd had since my divorce. I'd been given another chance, therefore I wanted to explore my sexuality. Luckily, Billy and I connect sexually on an entirely unparalleled level! It's more than intense chemistry, it's a deep, soul-sharing, passionate pairing where ultimate pleasure is a given. Our sex life is a dream where we feel safe and comfortable to share and indulge in our every fantasy.

We keep it spicy, excel in dirty talk, role play various scenarios and truly enjoy exploring each other and our naughty fantasies! It's just fun - which, by the way, is another of our rules. The third is peace. We've both been through it.. so this chapter is all about peace, fun and excitement! Anyway, when the opportunity arose for a spontaneous trip to Nashville, we were all about seeing what kind of adult fun we could get into. After a quick online search and plenty of reviews on Reddit, we decided to spend an evening and first time private club experience at Red Room, and we're so glad we did.

They offer private memberships for various lengths of time, and since we were only going to be in town a few days, we opted for the shortest option, the week-long membership. It was only $10, but we'd also have to buy tickets to an event for when we'd be there. They had different events on Friday and Saturday nights, and since we'd be there on a Friday, we'd be attending Fine Ass Friday!

To apply for the membership, you answer a few questions about yourself and your sexual preferences, like whether you're a couple, single male or single female, etc., and can upload a few photos and a short bio. There's a 24 hour waiting period to get the acceptance, and we received our welcome email the day after we applied. With the membership, you had the capability of chatting and sending messages to other couples and singles who were members. You could also see who had RSVP'd to upcoming events.

It was exciting to get likes and attention from other people, but we were mostly interested in feeling out the situation as a couple. As first timers to an adult sex club, the anticipation of it all had really worked us up and we were eager to explore all of the possibilities. Red Room has rules that need to be followed, most importantly that there is consent given before playing with others. There is a strict dress code, like men cannot wear tank tops or baseball caps, but ladies can wear the sexiest of lingerie out on the dance floor! There is an emphasis to dress up and keep the club classy. Clothes are optional in the back communal room and private rooms.

The location is kept hidden until you purchase a ticket to an event after your membership is approved, but it's about 20 miles away from Nashville in this little suburban strip mall off the freeway. Once we pulled into the parking lot, and got over our first-time jitters, we were welcomed in by two very nice employees. I had panicked earlier because I lost my I.D. somewhere on our road trip from Wisconsin to Nashville. Luckily I'd had a picture of it in my phone which was enough to prove my identity. We had called ahead to check and the lady we spoke to was very sweet and told me not to worry.

The woman who welcomed us was extremely friendly and all of our anxiety quickly melted away. We walked into a large open area with seating around the exterior and a dance floor in the middle. There weren't too many people there yet, and we had arrived shortly after the party started. A DJ was positioned in the back, and there was a bar on the side. They don't serve alcohol, but you can bring it with you. Billy and I don't drink, so that wasn't an issue for us. The bar does serve mixers and soft drinks, and there were some snacks on a nearby buffet table.

The tour continued past the bar into the back rooms. There was an open room with couches and a female glory hole, plus a room with bdsm props. Further down the hall were several private rooms - in these rooms you could leave the door open so others could watch (there was a velvet rope to cordon off the doorway), or you could close the door for private fun.

Because we'd read reviews that there isn't a lot of seating when the club is full, we had opted to reserve seats in the main area for an extra cost. It was nice to have space to set down our things and have comfortable seating to observe from and get cozy in. We opted for the James Dean section which was toward the far end of the main room. We wouldn't have had to, since the Friday night we were there it wasn't too busy, and there were a few open tables available.

After the tour, we settled in our section and we started feel the energy in the atmosphere. Immediately, a cute energetic woman came right up to me and introduced herself and gave me a big hug! She told me that I am gorgeous and she was so happy to see that I was coming when she'd looked at who had RSVP'd for the party. Honestly, that put the biggest smile on my face and I was completely flattered. She introduced herself to Billy too and told us she was dating the DJ, which she totally fit the part of a cute, sexy DJ's girlfriend. She had this teeny tiny red string bikini on under a pair of loose, baggy jeans, and short auburn hair. Hmmm, I thought, could I?

After she went back to her boyfriend, my first instinct to get things heated up was to give Billy a sexy lap dance. It felt so amazing and freeing to be able to bump and grind and let Billy put his hands all over my body without everyone rolling their eyes or telling us to get a room. This was the place for us to be sexually free and it felt incredibly liberating! Even though it was our first time at a place like this, we were in our element. I was wearing a sexy black halter dress, but was eager to change into my lingerie, thigh high stockings and sheer mesh overlay. Billy looked incredible that night wearing black pants and a vintage style light blue short-sleeved button down shirt. We went to the bathroom and I quickly changed (there is also a women's changing room) into the sexy black lace thong bodysuit Billy had gifted me. I threw on a long sleeved sheer black mesh dress over it and I had never felt better.

There was starting to be more action around us, so we decided to tour the place ourselves. The single men have to stay in the bar area or can dance or go to a private room if they're invited. There were several couples in the back communal room playing with a large pair of fuzzy dice, each side with a different body part and sexual action. We kept walking until we found an open private room with a sex swing, and quickly went in, closing the door behind us.

The energy in the place was palpable, you could hear sex noises all around us, adding to the erotic atmosphere. Billy lifted me onto the sex swing, unzipped, and pulled down his pants so he could enter me. We quickly got into a rhythm and the eroticism of it all made us extremely turned on and me extremely wet, my juices dripping into a puddle on the floor. I moaned loudly as Billy pumped in and out of me, throwing my head back and holding on hard to the swing's straps. It was exhilarating!

After, we cleaned up - the club provides towels and sanitizing spray and wipes - and went to the dance floor to move our bodies in a different way. By now, other couples were dancing and letting loose too. Billy and I danced awhile, feeling so close and aroused. We enjoyed that for a few songs and then decided to take another walk. We do wish there had been more people, but at the same time it was an adequate display for our first experience. We saw different aged people and all kinds of body types, but mostly couples and a few singles.

For our next public romp, we walked past a couple enthralled with each other, the woman straddling her partner on the couch, and opted for a private room with an arrangement of black pleather ottomans lined up together, forming a bed. Billy had placed me down on my back, throwing my legs over his shoulders and after a few minutes of just completely letting go, I completely let go! Once again, we let our moans and shrieks carry into the club untethered and enjoyed the moment's ecstasy!

After this incredible lovemaking session, we went back to our reserved seats to relish in what we had just done and the amazement of the whole night. By this time things were winding down, the club was emptying and we were ready to drive back to our rental and finish the adventure with some more sensual time together, just us.

Overall, our experience at the Red Room was fantastic! It was a place where we felt free to be our sexually adventurous selves without any judgement! For our first time, it was perfect to stick to ourselves and observe while also participating in a way we were comfortable. We're planning on returning and checking out other clubs across the country.