Our First Hotel Takeover: A Sexy Night at Jen's Halloween Party

Dressing up for Halloween is something you're never too old for. We were eager and excited — and honestly, a little nervous — to attend the Halloween-themed hotel takeover hosted by Jen’s Social Networking, a southern Wisconsin swingers group.

This was a two-night hotel takeover, but we could only make it Saturday night after spending Friday in Madison. We dressed as Catwoman and Batman, getting ready at a nearby hotel in downtown Delavan (which, to be honest, was a bit of a dump — but the main event hotel had long since sold out). Since we don’t drink, we knew driving back afterward wouldn’t be an issue.

When we pulled up, the parking lot was completely packed — a great sign. We parked on the street and headed inside, finding a large, open foyer buzzing with energy. To the left, there was a backdrop for photos; to the right, a registration table where we checked in with our SLS usernames. While the staff pointed out where things were, no one offered a full tour, which felt like a bit of a miss — especially for newbies like us. (They did send a detailed email ahead of time, though.) A warm welcome for first-timers would have gone a long way.

Setting the Hotel Takeover Scene

Everyone was dressed to impress. Costumes were elaborate and sexy — clearly, this was the group's biggest party of the year. There were prizes for best male, best female and best couple costumes. We found out later that the best way to win was to be naked! That rang true as the winning couples were nude, painted gold trophies (the woman half of the duo made a comment about how she'd eat my you-know-what any day. Blushing!). The main lobby had a DJ and dance floor, and down the hall were several play spaces: an open playroom and a mysterious blackout room (which we weren’t brave enough to try without knowing who was inside).

There was also a quieter lounge area with tables and chairs, where we stashed our things. While there, a youngish man approached me, complimenting me heavily and expressing interest after seeing us on SLS. His partner was interested in Billy too, but the guy was a little too aggressive for my taste. Thankfully, we're confident in setting boundaries and gracefully declined. (Consent and communication are everything in the lifestyle!) I think they had a bit much to drink, as we ran into them again later and were accosted for the second time (everyone else was lovely!).

Suzy's Halloween costume

Heating Things Up

Later, I changed out of my catsuit into a dark red and black lace set — bra, g-string, and a tasseled lace belt. That piece (from Fascinating Nights) always makes me feel like a goddess. As I changed in the open lounge, a woman nearby commented that her large table of friends were all enjoying the show, giving me a rush of adrenaline and confidence. The Leo in me really eats up the energy at these types of parties!

We wandered to the pool area, which was impressive: a big swimming pool, a hot tub, and a partitioned play space outfitted with beds, a glory hole, and even a sex sawhorse. We knew we'd be soaking some of those sheets later in the evening.

Back in the lobby area, we dirty danced for a bit and recognized a couple we’d seen on SLS. They introduced themselves, and after a little flirting and some kissing (with consent!), they asked if we wanted to do this thing before everyone lost their energy. We weren’t quite ready — this was our first hotel takeover, and we wanted to ease into things — so we politely said we'd circle back if the vibe felt right later.

Instead, Billy and I headed over to the play area by the pool. I dropped to my knees, taking him into my mouth, setting the stage for a wet and wild round on the sawhorse — with some very enthusiastic onlookers. We moved from the bed, to the sawhorse, to the chaise. Others being present only made it hotter!

The Night Escalates

Later, we explored the hotel's main playroom, packed with bodies, benches, and watchers. There was one woman who had the loudest, most fun sounding orgasms! I spotted a sexy man we’d danced with earlier — the one in the cowboy hat. I approached him confidently. He noticed my rhinestone "Naughty" choker and asked, "Are you naughty?""Why don’t you find out?" I teased.

After getting the green light, the sexy cowboy joined Billy and me on a bed, and it felt incredible to be the center of attention for two handsome men. After an intense session, we cooled off with a naked dip in the pool — an absolutely liberating feeling (Some wore swimsuits, but many, like us, embraced total freedom.). A party goer approached us in the pool and told us he had seen us earlier and that our lovemaking was very sexy. What a fun thing to hear!

As the night wound down, we had one final, steamy round in the playroom. There were a few people still going at it, but things were winding down. By this time, most of the party had moved back to individual rooms. We didn't want the night to end, but it was time to say goodbye.

Final Thoughts

We finally headed back to our hotel, exhausted and exhilarated. One thing’s for sure — we’ll absolutely be back to another Jen’s Social Networking event. The crowd was welcoming, the energy was electric, and it was the perfect first experience for us.